arsene wengers coat wrote:DoomMerchant wrote:arsene wengers coat wrote:georgefostersbeard wrote:bluenyellow wrote:The guy garner had a go at had gone to shout at nigel to get macca on in place of bowery,nigel told him to come and do the job if he could do better,Garnes then had a rite go at him told the stewards he never wants to see him again.The bloke replied i only wanted macca on.
It would be fascinating to know if the bloke thought that he would persuade the manager to make a change to the playing line up because he shouted at him to do so.
There's a thread next door trying to get men to open up and discuss their true feelings, but on here we're perhaps unfairly putting someone through a kangaroo court because they don't feel they can express their true feelings due to misguided male values of football. God knows what impact this thread might be having on them in the cold light of day.
I've not contributed to the 'thread next door' for a valid reason. I struggle with seasonal affective disorder - which strangely a lot of 'men' think is nonsense. However, this has gone on for years and what makes it acutely worse in those long grim winter months is negativity - whatever the environment negativity compounds the symptoms. So it's interesting that you seem to think that these ignorant blowhards help their mental health cause by berating and lambasting folks on the field and the dugout, because, it's precisely these types and their perpetual bull who undermine my own mental well-being. I'll miss 5-6 games from my season ticket because I'm listening to this type of crap and I have to move myself away from them before it meddles with my moods. Mansfield Town could lose every game and it doesn't have the same impact as a rampant shouty bellraspberry with a red face and a plethora of unwarranted expletives does.
So stick your thesis up your wrong un.
Sorry to hear that. What you say is absolutely fine, apart from your last comment which I won't do, thanks.
I'm not saying anyone should release their stresses at your expense, and it's not acceptable, but perhaps they feel as if they can't express it any other way. As an eloquent young man you might want to help them find alternative solutions. That might help you both.
I'll never be able to advocate the dispelling of stresses by lumping them on to someone else, and let's face it barking abuse at an individual in any manner adds to anyone's stress levels, no matter the tolerance of the target.
I can't imagine that it helped Cloughie or Garner, or the targeted players to improve their choices or decisions. Akins is a classic example - kopped a ton of grief in his first 8-9 months at Stags and it clearly affected him.
As for me AWC, I've learned to move myself away from it because otherwise I fall out with people (at Stags and work and home)........that surprises nobody, I'd imagine