Showaddywaddy wrote:arsene wengers coat wrote:Chrisuknottm wrote:Even without getting into the specifics of whether this thread is Stags related it should be left to survive on its own not be artificially resurrected every few days by contributors "bumping" it into life.
I think the kindness offered by this thread, where strangers reach out to each other offering support makes the world a little bit of better place.
This thread is the most deserving of a 'bump' from time to time. Especially if helps someone in any way, surely?
I totally agree AWC if it only helps one person in a year then it’s brilliant. It can take a lot for people to open up and if this one thread is the outlet someone needs it’s great. I know far more usernames than I can put a face to here but Stagsnet is its own community and people clearly feel comfortable opening up and sharing information on here and that can only be a good thing.
I’d actually like to share something. My mental health has been a struggle for over a decade now and I was actually going through a relatively calm period earlier this year, I started a new job that I was really enjoying and everything was good then my physical health started to cause me problems. I’ve been diagnosed with bowel cancer and I’m due for surgery next week. The good news is they are aiming for a cure and believe they can remove all the tumour. My anxiety levels are understandable creeping up as the day of the operation draws closer but I’ve actually been relatively calm about the whole thing so far. The only reason I share this is because I’ve actually found it much easier to process this news than I ever have to wrap my head around my mental health struggles. That’s not to say that I’m belittling or trivialising cancer, of course I’m not but as I’m in the hands of others to fix me I’ve found that much easier than having to try and fix myself mentally. I should also add that I feel lucky that’s is been caught early enough and the care I’ve received has been first class. A friend said to me perhaps my mental health struggles have actually helped me become more resilient in dealing with this news and I really liked that perspective and learning to reassess your situation and looking for alternative perspectives is something I’ve come to find really useful over the last few years. It’s also learnt me to take nothing for granted.
Tomorrow will be my last home game for a little while as I’ll be out of action for a few weeks post surgery and I hate missing home games (probably missed around half a dozen in 34 years)but I’ll have Martin and Dean to keep me company on Ifollow and I’m already looking forward to my first game back.
Up the Stags.
Thinking of you today buddy and hope your operation went well.