Jamie wrote:HitchcocksShins wrote:Glad I'm not the only one sick of this. One bouncer in particular has made my last few match days really quite uncomfortable in and around the sandy pate bar. I'm 6 foot 4 and have been regularly singled out since I was a teenager...airports, festivals, by police and at football grounds and it gets me low key irate, but over the years I've had to grow thick skin over it because it always happens. But because I disliked him suddenly putting his hand on me, grabbing my arm out of the blue to have a word with me
hes now got it in his head I'm a trouble maker, regularly just watching me, eyeing me up from a distance and yesterday he stopped me to ask me why I was wearing a South Africa top? He's never been pleasant to me and was obviously asking because he assumed the worst of me, and no consideration I was born there, as I was.
I go there every match day with my dad who's almost 70, and tend to have a good laugh. What trouble does he think I'm trying to cause? I'm now considering making a formal complaint because he's not making my match day there pleasant and he's a literal waste of a wage spending his time singling me out.
Why did he grab your arm and want a word? And when you say you disliked that, what did you do / how did you react?
I was training some staff for a Govt Agency last week. In the session one munchkin ran up behind me and grabbed my shoulder to get my attention, just a tap, nothing too aggressive.
His feedback from me 1. You've just assaulted me in front of witnesses, 2. I've now got a free shot to belt you in the gob because I'm now defending myself.
I've spent the last decade dealing with the 'public' in confrontational situations, that have involved getting hands on. Now the knees have gone I'm training the next batch.
If I'd behaved the way some of our stewards behave, I would expected a lot more aggro than I actually ever got.
Luckily for the stewards the people they talk to like crap are just there too watch the football and are cowed into compliance. It's noticable how when there is a big away following they are very tollerant of misbehaviour in the away end.
We do have some very good stewards and they should be given credit for that, but it also needs to be acknowledged by the club that we have some real dickheads, who for whatever reason are encouraged to act like that by someone in authority at the club.
Remember CR thinks of us as customers & not fans, well the front facing customer service staff need retraining.
Facts do not cease to exist because they are ignored.