FrontRowHero, this is good advice from SPBS. I hope you consider them, when your ban is over.Sandy Pate Best Stag wrote:There is more than one way to stand up to bullies especially if they are in a position of authority. Anyone itrying to control a crowd situation will not stand and argue the toss for ten minutes especially if they are being aggressively confronted.
If you think they are wrong especially if you are accompanied by children, the sensible thing to do is comply with the request and then make a retrospective complaint to their employer/supervisor. It is not wise to confront the person there and then as you will not win, merely escalate the problem. This method is also more likely to get you the result you want.
I can well imagine the response of most adults who have a 9 year old child telling them how to do their job. Amusement at the audacity of it would soon turn to confrontation as the child persists. Not a good example to set and exactly why we continue to have problems at matches. If it was on the pitch the red card would soon get worn out.
HughesyStag89 wrote:I miss Ronnie that guy got everyone going and even though he had always had a skinful the guy got behind the lads start to finish
HughesyStag89 wrote:I only stated him being drunk at every match because half the time he would be removed from the stadium, I remember him being dragged out at county away for causing trouble drunk
Ronaldo10 wrote:So the club can afford to ban a guy who takes his 2 kids to every home game and spends a fortune.
£530 a season for 3 ST holders
£120 a season for 3 new shirts
The guy is passionate about his football club and gets behind them.I sit just above him at home games admittedly he will mostly go to far with moaning about officials but he still gets behind the team. See him in the railway pre match having lunch with his kids.Always polite and always looking forward to the next 90 minutes.
Come on MTFC these are fans we need
Ronaldo10 wrote:So the club can afford to ban a guy who takes his 2 kids to every home game and spends a fortune.
£530 a season for 3 ST holders
£120 a season for 3 new shirts
The guy is passionate about his football club and gets behind them.I sit just above him at home games admittedly he will mostly go to far with moaning about officials but he still gets behind the team. See him in the railway pre match having lunch with his kids.Always polite and always looking forward to the next 90 minutes.
Come on MTFC these are fans we need
Ronaldo10 wrote:So the club can afford to ban a guy who takes his 2 kids to every home game and spends a fortune.
£530 a season for 3 ST holders
£120 a season for 3 new shirts
The guy is passionate about his football club and gets behind them.I sit just above him at home games admittedly he will mostly go to far with moaning about officials but he still gets behind the team. See him in the railway pre match having lunch with his kids.Always polite and always looking forward to the next 90 minutes.
Come on MTFC these are fans we need
DoomMerchant wrote:I've taken my kids for over a decade. Their presence makes me more mindful of my behaviour. I'm certainly conscious that I want to set an example, I want them to enjoy themselves and not see their old man behaving like an embarrassment.
I feel I'm as passionate as the next fan. Control is something that we can all manage. This guy sounds like he lacks any discipline, which is fundamental when you are out and about with your children.
MTFCMusings wrote:Can we let him back in if we draw Posh in the cup?
bellwhiff wrote:MTFCMusings wrote:Can we let him back in if we draw Posh in the cup?
Won’t need him. I’ll be going to that one. I’ll stand in.
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